It wasn't the first time. This has happened for a few times already. For some reasons that you cannot fathom yet, you've been wondering how you've become a part of this cycle.
You’ve been dating a wonderful guy. You have undeniable chemistry. He makes you laugh and is totally supportive. You hang out or go out every weekend and text each other in between seeing each other.
It all seems to be going so well. Until you discuss about making it exclusive; an idea that he is not interested in whatsoever.
It turns out that he isn’t looking for anything serious. He wants to keep it casual and fun. He sincerely likes you a lot, but it isn’t good timing for him right now. He isn’t ready just yet.
He just isn’t in a place to commit.
And for quite some time, you wait. You have been waiting. You keep on hoping that maybe he’ll change his mind since it isn’t personal. It’s only about timing, right? But time changes constantly!
And yet you kept your hopes higher thinking maybe soon he’ll learn something about you that he can’t lose. That maybe one day it’ll all work out; maybe he was just scared.
But he doesn’t change his mind because he was telling you the truth. He’s not scared. He doesn’t want anything serious and timing does not evolve in your favor. And even if the reason for all of this is nothing personal, that doesn’t change the fact that he won’t commit. That doesn’t change what he wants.
And if he won’t commit to you, you need to commit to yourself.
Commit to walking away from him; a person you really like who isn’t able to give you what you need. Commit to letting him go with grace and dignity, saying goodbye with a kiss on the cheek and well wishes as you move onto someone who is willing and able to provide you with the relationship you crave.
Commit to becoming the best version of yourself. Explore your passions with relentless curiosity. Commit to kicking ass at your job. Commit to spending time alone as you get to know yourself better, learning what like about yourself and what you need from other people.
Commit to your friends and family. Commit to spending time with people who value and appreciate you. Commit to your friends who have been there for you through thick and thin. Commit to your family who keeps you grounded and safe.
Commit to yourself. Commit to self-respect and self-care. Commit to self-love. Commit to being gentle with yourself; allowing to make mistakes and learn from them. Commit to picking yourself back up when you fall and commit to only accepting the love you deserve.
Commit to yourself, because you are your own constant. Commit to considering yourself as your own bestfriend. Because when all else fail, you only got yourself alone. It isn't about shutting people out of your life but learning how to become independent of your own happiness be contented about it.
Bounce!
You’ve been dating a wonderful guy. You have undeniable chemistry. He makes you laugh and is totally supportive. You hang out or go out every weekend and text each other in between seeing each other.
It all seems to be going so well. Until you discuss about making it exclusive; an idea that he is not interested in whatsoever.
It turns out that he isn’t looking for anything serious. He wants to keep it casual and fun. He sincerely likes you a lot, but it isn’t good timing for him right now. He isn’t ready just yet.
He just isn’t in a place to commit.
And for quite some time, you wait. You have been waiting. You keep on hoping that maybe he’ll change his mind since it isn’t personal. It’s only about timing, right? But time changes constantly!
And yet you kept your hopes higher thinking maybe soon he’ll learn something about you that he can’t lose. That maybe one day it’ll all work out; maybe he was just scared.
But he doesn’t change his mind because he was telling you the truth. He’s not scared. He doesn’t want anything serious and timing does not evolve in your favor. And even if the reason for all of this is nothing personal, that doesn’t change the fact that he won’t commit. That doesn’t change what he wants.
And if he won’t commit to you, you need to commit to yourself.
Commit to walking away from him; a person you really like who isn’t able to give you what you need. Commit to letting him go with grace and dignity, saying goodbye with a kiss on the cheek and well wishes as you move onto someone who is willing and able to provide you with the relationship you crave.
Commit to becoming the best version of yourself. Explore your passions with relentless curiosity. Commit to kicking ass at your job. Commit to spending time alone as you get to know yourself better, learning what like about yourself and what you need from other people.
Commit to your friends and family. Commit to spending time with people who value and appreciate you. Commit to your friends who have been there for you through thick and thin. Commit to your family who keeps you grounded and safe.
Commit to yourself. Commit to self-respect and self-care. Commit to self-love. Commit to being gentle with yourself; allowing to make mistakes and learn from them. Commit to picking yourself back up when you fall and commit to only accepting the love you deserve.
Commit to yourself, because you are your own constant. Commit to considering yourself as your own bestfriend. Because when all else fail, you only got yourself alone. It isn't about shutting people out of your life but learning how to become independent of your own happiness be contented about it.
Bounce!
